What Jon Kream said

And I quote:

“Children are not just awesomely cool. They are YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. They didn’t ask to be here, you dragged them into this world. They naturally know what they like/don’t like, when they are hungry/not, what they want/don’t want and what their bodies need. ‘Eat it or fix something … is shirking your responsibility once YOUR needs are met . We prepare and share meals with each other out of love for our families, not to meet some minimum traditional standard of care set by society, (“I made dinner its not my fault she wont eat it”) It is your fault – If you cant want to prepare food they want, in order to meet their needs because you love them, then at least do it because its your responsibility to feed them what they need, not what is convenient to feed them. The alternative shows them that their best interests are not yours and negatively impacts their attitude towards and relationship with you and food forever.“